Get Off Your Bum and Just Do It

With a new year, comes new beginnings. There is a renewed sense of hope that you can do what you couldn't last year, what you failed at last year, what you never tried last year. I hate to make resolutions. I feel like I'm setting myself up for failure. But there is something to be said about mapping out your objectives, goals and ultimately your dreams. This is the perfect, albeit cliched, time of the year to reorganize and revitalize your life. We are not just insignificant beings aimlessly wandering around this Earth of ours without direction or meaning. What we do matters, not just for our own happiness and health, but to those around us. When trying something scary or reaching for something (whether it be a dream school, job, or even just talking to the cute stranger in line at the grocery store) that you may believe to be beyond your reach, is just not worth it. What if someone sees me struggling with this? What if I fail?

This has been a struggle of mine; the fear of success (or non-success rather). That may sound absolutely ridiculous to you, but this has been a very real fear throughout my life, and unfortunately I can look back with some regrets because of it. It is scary to put yourself out there for others to see and judge what you do. It can be absolutely terrifying, but in my almost 24-years, I'm starting to wise up to this; without risk there is no success. Without discomfort and challenge, there is no gain. And you may have people try to discourage you on your path, but guess what? They're jealous. Jealous that you are fearless enough to take a risk they are too scared to take themselves. Jealous that you are doing what they believe they cannot do for themselves. And yes, you might fail, but at least you can say you  tried. So here is my challenge for you dear readers, is to dream at least one crazy/terrifying/amazing thing that you want in your life, and start doing it. I dare you to think astronomical and extraordinary thoughts. Then be brave and start planning the little baby steps that will help you reach your goal.  Because I can guarantee that no one else is going to come along and do it for you. YOU have to make it happen. This is not a challenge that I am extending just to you, but also to myself.